Relationships of all kinds r like sand held in ur hand.Held loosely,with an open hand,the sand remains where it is.The minute you close ur hand & squeeze tightly to hold on,the sand trickles through ur fingers.You may hold on to some of it,but most will be spilled.A relationship is like that.Held loosely, with other person, it is likely to remain intact.But hold too tightly, too possessively,& the relationship slips away & is lost.!